There comes a time when we have to crucify every thought, action, and spoken words that do not glorify Elohim, the Creator. I clearly heard Him say this weekend “it is going to be the way I said anyway”. Doing what seems right in our OWN eyes is a recipe for physical and spiritual death, to land right in the middle of the lake of fire with satan and all his demonic followers. This fire will burn, it will be tasted, smelt, felt, it will never go out unless Elohim commands it.
Ask Elohim in earnest for forgiveness for ANY sins, not just incest and molestation, then allow him to transform you from the inside out. Paul said it best in Romans 6:
6:1-2 What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound ? God forbid . How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein…… See Romans 6 for the rest of of the story.